Saturday, 9 May 2015

Confidence ♥

   confidence is something that most females struggle with at some point in their life. We are always being segmented based on society's norms. Well you know what?...those norms really should not exist. A lot of us females base our whole lives on how we are "supposed" to look or act. At the end of the day everybody is different and that is what makes us beautiful. I'm quite sick of hearing things like "she is fat" or "real women have curves". I mean some people look a certain weight because they unfortunately have a problem such as anorexia or comfort eating. People come in all different shapes and sizes and it's okay. Girls are under constant pressure to lose weight and become slim. But at the end of the day you should be proud of the body that god gave you. Being the opposing weight does not always mean that the grass is greener on the other side. There are clothes that look good on bigger girls, and there are some that look good on slimmer. There are guys whose cultures prefer bigger girls, and some whose cultures prefer slimmer girls. 

Being a certain weight will not give you inner peace...having confidence regardless of your physical appearance will. Rather than looking at the negative side of your looks, try looking at the positive. I know there are people out there that are rude and may make comments, but those people are probably not happy within themselves. Oh and girls if it's people that you think you are close to that are making rude comments then guess what?...they are NOT your friends. It took me a long time to grasp this concept in my head, and I think it's something that I need to share. If you surround yourself with negative energy it has a way of bouncing back. 

one last time before saying "I can't"... turn around and say to yourself  "I can and I will." You'd be surprised at the differences that words can make. 

                   London Leopard


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